Understanding and Enhancing Protective Bubbles for Children on the Autism Spectrum
Introduction:
Today I want to explore the concept of “bubbles” surrounding children on the autism spectrum. These bubbles differ from child to child, and understanding them is essential to provide the right kind of support. Grounding and shielding are two strategies that significantly help these children. Let’s dive into the details of these protective bubbles and how we can help children feel more connected and safe.
The Spectrum of Bubbles:
Each child’s bubble is unique, serving as an aura of comfort and protection. For example, Kyler, whose bubble seemed hard and impenetrable, was living in a world of his own. His bubble, though safeguarding him, prevented him from grounding well, which is pivotal for establishing connections with his surroundings. By using grounding and a color shield—a concept I explain in detail in Episode 4—we provided him with additional layers of protection. This change allowed him to become more open and interactive.
Types of Bubbles and Their Solutions:
Some children have bubbles with dents or cracks, while others possess overly permeable ones that leave them vulnerable to external stimuli, resulting in a state of dysregulation. Healing these bubbles and implementing protective shields create a safe environment for them to engage with the world.
Grounding plays a crucial role here, especially for bubbles like Kyler’s that seem disconnected from the earth. By attaching roots in their bubble, children can establish an earthly connection. Through grounding techniques, like the ones discussed in Episode 3, they become aware of their presence on earth, enabling better interaction and reducing feelings of isolation.
Cords and Connectivity:
Interpersonal connections matter too. In Kyler’s case, we worked on heart-to-heart cords between him and his parents. By reinforcing these connections with filters for positive interactions, Kyler developed deeper relationships with his family while remaining protected.
When Bubbles Lack Structure:
For some children, the issue lies in bubbles without a roof or bottom, a condition that can lead to overwhelming sensations. Addressing such imbalances helps maintain their aura, which is needed for their protection and wellbeing.
Importance for All:
Interestingly, I’ve noticed that children on the autism spectrum often experience challenges with grounding and shielding. However, this isn’t exclusive to autistic children; many neurotypical individuals can experience similar issues, although some have naturally robust systems in place.
Conclusion and Call to Action:
If I could have everyone do only 2 things every day, it would be grounding and shielding both as a parent and for our children. For parents of autistic children, grounding and shielding are invaluable practices for supporting their child’s development and protecting their sensitive energies. By incorporating daily rituals—like the 33-second grounding and shielding song—you can nurture a more secure and peaceful environment.
If you feel the need for extra help in grounding and shielding, consider reaching out for personalized support. Setting up an appointment with Sheridan can provide you with the guidance necessary to establish effective grounding and shielding techniques for you and your child. Let us work together to build a solid foundation of safety and connection for your family’s well being. Also, make sure to subscribe to the newsletter for more support through access to the private podcast.
