Today I want to share a beautiful story from Laine about her journey as a communication partner with Madi, a remarkable young woman on the autism spectrum. Her experience is full of faith, patience, learning, and the kind of connection that changes lives.
Laine first met Madi years ago when Madi and her family moved into her ward in Carlsbad, California. After some time had passed, Madi’s mom reached out again, and Laine felt strongly that she was meant to be part of Madi’s life. It felt like a divine appointment.
As Laine began working with Madi, she quickly realized this was going to be a journey of learning and trust. Madi uses spelling to communicate, and through that process, Laine was able to see more and more of Madi’s heart, intelligence, determination, and spirit.
Like many meaningful journeys, this one came with challenges. There were moments that required patience, calmness, and a willingness to adjust. Laine learned that one of the most important things she could do was stay peaceful and regulated herself. That calm presence helped Madi feel safe and supported.
But the breakthroughs have been beautiful.
Laine has watched Madi pursue communication, education, and independence in inspiring ways. Madi completed the Pathway program and is working toward her bachelor’s degree. Her perseverance is a powerful reminder that these kids are capable, aware, and eager to participate in life in meaningful ways.
One of the most touching parts of Laine’s experience has been seeing how communication with Madi often goes far beyond words. Their connection has included spiritual insights and deeper emotional understanding that opened Laine’s eyes to how much more is possible when we truly listen.
Laine has also been deeply moved by Madi’s capacity for love and connection. There is a purity and depth in the way Madi relates to others that is beautiful to witness.
Laine’s advice to parents is to stay open to what their child is showing them. Often, children already know who feels safe, who they want to work with, and what they need. Trusting that process can make all the difference.
And for anyone considering becoming a communication partner, Laine shares that this work requires more than technique. It asks for emotional regulation, spiritual listening, and a willingness to meet each child as their own unique person.
The greatest lesson from Laine’s journey with Madi is simple:
Listening to the spirit changes everything.
These children have so much to share. When we become quiet enough to truly listen, we begin to understand the depth, wisdom, and beauty that have been there all along.
